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Slap Your Troubles Away, SLAP CHOP!

On your mark, get set, SLAP CHOP!  Watch 2008 Super Bowl’s top commercial (almost a million hits to this day)!

The Colts or the Saints — who’s your team?  GO TEAM! :)

February 7, 2010 Posted by Arizona's Optimist | Attitude, Health and Wellness, Humor, Marketing, Success | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

How to Reach Your Full Potential for God

Before introducing Dr. Charles Stanley’s latest publication, I wish to clarify, I am no right-wing conservative; to the contrary, a left-leaning Independent; a social progressive and fiscally, moderately conservative. 

More importantly, having been screwed too many times by unreliable knowledge and the perception of truth, this hopeless sinner came to the Lord 16 years ago, gradually beginning to trust what I’ve yet to understand (yes, the disobedient child FINALLY listens to her Father because her ways have resulted in intolerable pain and sheer misery).

Have you ever wondered, “What is my calling?  What is my purpose here on this earth?”

You’re not alone.  I know at least half a dozen friends who’ve shared similar thoughts, myself included.

Dr. Charles Stanley’s How to Reach Your Full Potential for God describes God’s wisdom and His ways:

  1. God always gives us opportunities that challenge who we are already and that are designed to move us to a new level of what we are already doing. (The bold, courageous, fisherman, Peter, puts down his net to serve Jesus, becoming a fisher of men.)
  2. God always calls us to something.  Jesus does not call us to quit something and remain idle for the rest of our days. (God didn’t simply tell Abram to leave his homeland.  God provided clear directions on how to reach the new land and the future that awaited him).
  3. God sets before us a challenge that holds the opportunity for blessings beyond ourselves. (If an opportunity is only for you or your immediate family, it very likely is not from God.) 
  4. God will confirm His presence as you pursue the challenge He has set before you.  (Peter walked on water until his faith in Jesus waned.  Peter also walked back–on water–to the boat with Jesus.) 
  5. God’s challenges will always accompany the enabling power of the Holy spirit.  He will remind you of God’s commandments, Bible stories, and lasting promises of God’s Word.  In most exciting ways, The Holy Spirit will give you His creative and productive ideas.

At 44-years-old, I continue to search for my ultimate calling.  I have yet to find out, but regardless of the unknown, I choose to live daily with purpose and joy (doesn’t happen all the time but I try).

What’s your calling?  What do you want to be when you grow up?  :)

January 30, 2010 Posted by Arizona's Optimist | Attitude, Beauty, Book Review, Change, Christianity, Compassion, Dream, Education, God, Gratitude, Heart, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Mind, Passion, Peace, Purpose, Self Help, Soul, Spirit, Spirituality, Success | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

Inspiration!

Which thoughts do you live by? 

Have a great day! :)

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Can Democracy and Islamic Sharia Law Coexist?

You decide:

  • Democracy –  a : government by the people; especially rule of the majority b : a government in which the supreme power is vested in the people and exercised by them directly or indirectly through a system of representation usually involving periodically held free elections
  • Sharia — Islamic law based on the Koran.
    Imposes theocracy over democracy, its abuse of human rights, its institutionalized discrimination, its denial of human dignity and individual autonomy, its punishment of alternative lifestyle choices, and for the severity of its punishments (Iran, Afghanistan’s Taliban – you get the picture). (Full Story)

An individual who chooses to immigrate to another country should respect the language, custom, and the culture of his adopted nation; just as a guest would respect the ways of his hosts when invited to their home. 

Preserve your culture at home.  Outside of the home, assimilate.  It was your choice to come to our country.  No one dragged you here. (Full Story)

Democracy and Islamic Sharia Law will never coexist. (See also Why I Renounced Jihad).

January 16, 2010 Posted by Arizona's Optimist | America, Attitude, Education, God, Introspection, Islam, Soul, Spirit, War | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

Life is Precious

Precious — great value, cherished, refined (Merriam Webster)

What if you were abused (verbally, physically, and sexually) by your parents — the people closest to you, your support, your mentor — those who should be looking out for your best interests?

Precious – intelligent, courageous, strong, tenacious, priceless

Life – hard, short, painful, rich, precious!

 

January 9, 2010 Posted by Arizona's Optimist | America, Attitude, Beauty, Body, Change, Collaboration, Compassion, Dream, Education, Freedom, Health and Wellness, Heart, Introspection, Love, Mind, Passion, Purpose, Self Help, Soul, Spirit, Stress, Success | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

Obedience Requires Courage

Which would you choose?  Known or the unknown?  Knowledge or faith?

If you take comfort in control and predictability, you value knowledge, the known. 

Those of us who’ve been screwed too many times by unreliable knowledge and the perception of truth, gradually begin to trust what we’ve yet to understand.  Yes, the disobedient child FINALLY listens to his parents because his ways have resulted in intolerable pain and sheer misery.

Do we have a choice?

In Touch Ministry’s pastor, Dr. Charles Stanley’s messages always hits the nail on the head, “You reap what you sow, more than what you sow, later than what you sow … Obedience is not for the faint hearted.  Obedience requires discipline and courage.”

Our life is not just ours.  Our actions — both good and bad — affect others; especially those closest to us.

  • Adam and Eve ate the forbidden fruit.  God banned them from the Garden of Eden. 
  • King David’s affair with Bathsheba causes negative repercussions.  First, the child conceived would die.  David’s many children would always fight. This is especially hard on David because he loves his children very much.  God forgives King David but David must still face his consequences.

The world has eyes. (Marianne Williamson).  What is said and done in secret will be shouted from the rooftop. (Luke 12:2-3)

For the year 2010, I will continue to work on obedience.  I’m not courageous.  I simply don’t care for the consequences.

God, thanks for your patience, guidance, and understanding!

What’s your new year’s resolution? :)

January 2, 2010 Posted by Arizona's Optimist | Attitude, Change, Christianity, Compassion, God, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Peace, Purpose, Self Help, Soul, Spirit, Spirituality, Success | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

It’s Complicated!

Don’t know about you but the the longer I hang around the block, I find myself enjoying the company of complicated people — the so called “screw ups” — the ever so adorable human beings! 

Would you prefer to be around people who are always “doing great” and “so together?”  Not me.  I’m so imperfect; I’d suffocate amongst wanna-be-perfectionists. 

Wanna know my humble opinion? Folks who think and act like they’re so together are really more screwed up than you and me — at least we’re able to admit to and live with our humanity.  “Perfect people” are just in denial — too insecure to face their true selves.  To the goody two-shoes, ”STOP JUDGING.  LIVE A LITTLE!”

If you were divorced, successful, stable career woman about to start a new relationship, and your charming, unreliable, two-timing ex-husband showed up saying “I really want to grow old with you”, would you take him back?

My head would say “NO WAY!”  But my heart?  “Maybe …?  Maybe … someday?”

LIFE — so hilarious, so complicated, so unbelievable! 

It’s Complicated — two thumbs WAY UP!  A must see this holiday season!  :)

 

December 28, 2009 Posted by Arizona's Optimist | Art, Attitude, Beauty, Body, Business, Change, Education, Freedom, Fun, Health and Wellness, Heart, Humor, Introspection, Love, Marriage, Mind, Movie, Passion, People, Self Help, Soul, Spirit, Spirituality, Stress, Success | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

Love This Letter!

A personal letter doesn’t get better than this.  Love to share it with you!

*****

My Children,

Many folks have told me they’re upset that My name is taken out of the season.  Maybe you’ve forgotten I wasn’t actually born during this time of year.  It was some of your predecessors who decided to celebrate My birthday on a pagan festival.

I don’t care what you call the day.  If you want to celebrate my birth, JUST GET ALONG AND LOVE ONE ANOTHER.

If you want to give Me a present in remembrance of My birth, here is my wish list.  You choose:

  • Write letters of love and hope to soldiers away from home.  They are terribly afraid and lonely this time of year.  I know.  They tell me.
  • Visit someone in a nursing home.  You don’t have to know them.  Just let them know you care.
  • Try to give everyone a warm smile.  You could make a difference in the life of the lonely and the hopeless.
  • Pray for George and his family rather than complaining about the wording on his cards.
  • Spend time with your kids.  They don’t want gifts you can’t afford.  Tell them the story of My birth and why I came to live with you down here.  Hold your kids.  Tell them how much you love them.
  • Forgive someone who has hurt you.
  • Support a charity or a missionary — especially ones who take My love and Good News to those who have never heard my name.
  • Finally, behave like a Christian.  Don’t do things in secret that you wouldn’t do in My presence.  Let people know by your actions that you are mine.
  • I am God.  I can take care of Myself.  Just love Me and do what I have shared.  I’ll take care of the rest.  Check the above and get to work.  Time is short.  I’ll help you but the ball is now in your court.  Have a blessed Christmas with all your loved ones. 

Remember, I LOVE YOU.

Jesus

*****

Thanks GOD! :)

December 27, 2009 Posted by Arizona's Optimist | Attitude, Beauty, Change, Christianity, Collaboration, Compassion, God, Gratitude, Heart, Introspection, Leadership, Love, Mind, Passion, Peace, People, Purpose, Self Help, Soul, Spirit, Spirituality, Success, War | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

Life’s Treasures

LOVE, LOVE, LOVE.

In your anger do not sin.  Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.  (Ephesians 4:26)

******

I’ve heard this countless times. 

But my aunt’s sudden death shook me to the core: “Nothing of this world can be taken to the next.  I can be here one day and gone the next.  My most important legacy is and ought to be love.”

My cousin, still in disbelief, shared with us the last 10 hours with her 70-year-old mother.

*****

Last night, our aunt, with the help of portable oxygen, was breathing normally, even telling a few jokes over the phone.  At 7 p.m., mother and daughter were enjoying a light conversation. 

Aunt was going to work on Monday.  Business as usual. 

At 7:30, something went wrong. 

Aunt called her daughter again. 

Cousin called the ambulance.  In hopes of minimizing wait time, she wanted her mother to be admitted to the Emergency Room.

Similar incidents have occurred in the past.  Family members thought aunt needed to get routine care, then return home.

At 11 p.m., aunt’s pulse weakened — dramatically. 

Suddenly, she wanted family members at bed side.  She begged for her priest.  For 12 years, aunt worked at the church gift shop. 

Daughter called … She called once more. 

Priest answered, “It’s 1 a.m.  I don’t make late night visits.”

In desperation, daughter told mother, “Mom, you can talk directly to God.  You don’t need the priest to intercede.  If you want to get right with Him, the time is NOW!  … TELL GOD EVERYTHING NOW!”"

At 5 a.m., aunt took her last breath.

Cousin called the priest. 

He arrived — 5:20 a.m.

******

Our aunt is at a much better place.  She is HOME.

  

December 26, 2009 Posted by Arizona's Optimist | Christianity, Collaboration, Compassion, God, Heart, Introspection, Peace, Soul, Spirit, Spirituality | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet

Christ Our Savior is Born!

“Do not be afraid, Mary, you have found favor with God. You will be with child and give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus.  He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over the house of Jacob forever; his kingdom will never end.”  (Luke 1: 30-35) 

 

Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests. (Luke 2:14)

 

December 24, 2009 Posted by Arizona's Optimist | Christianity, Compassion, God, Heart, Love, Peace, Soul, Spirit, Spirituality | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments Yet